Considering day-care?
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Benjamin does not go into daycare, and he won't for as long as we can help it. I realize that for many people the reality is much different and sometimes there aren't many alternatives.
One of the commenters said: The whole argument about quality time… is hogwash--kids need plain ol' quantity
. I do believe that when raising a family, there's no quality without quantity.